Tuesday, 11 December 2018

Care Centre blessed with wonderful volunteers

On December 5, the management and staff of Rand Aid’s Ron Smith Care Centre hosted a Volunteer Appreciation party.

“It was a wonderful opportunity to thank each and every one of our 45 volunteers and to tell them how much we appreciate the giving of their love, time and talents to brighten up and enrich the lives of our residents,” said Debbie Christen, Rand Aid’s Manager: Recreation Programmes. 

The care centre’s volunteers are very rarely all together in one place at the same time, so they all had a great time meeting people they didn’t know. To help break the ice, each volunteer drew the name of another volunteer, then had to find that person and ask them a few ‘who are you’ questions. Everyone then introduced their ‘new friend’ to the rest of the group amidst much merriment and fun. By the time all the introductions were made, it seemed like many people had a new buddy!

In a short address, Debbie acknowledged that each volunteer contributes to the lives of the care centre residents in their own unique way. Some run programmes, some assist with activities, some visit elders on a one-on-one basis, while still others work especially with residents living with dementia. But the most important contribution that the volunteers make is the energy, warmth and caring that they bring to the care centre, and the connections they make with the residents who are elderly and frail.

She went on to say that according to certain sources, we, as a society, are apparently lonelier than we ever have been. And at the care centre, there are many residents who are at that stage in life where their friends and spouses are no longer with them and their children/grandchildren may live overseas, which sometimes creates a lonely and isolating situation.

There are so many older people who long for deep and engaging communication and connection with another human being. And that’s where the care centre’s volunteers come in. When they take the time to give someone their full attention; when they exchange life stories and try to get to know who the individual is as a person, they are adding something that is so precious and vital to the well-being of the resident.

With speeches over and each volunteer having been recognised and thanked, it was time for lunch. Following an Indian theme, volunteer Sherill Singh catered for the event and served two kinds of samosas for starters; followed by two kinds of chicken curry and rice with chutney and cucumber raita; vegetable biryani; and a green salad and carrot salad.  The spicy richness of the curries was then cooled down with a dessert of Cornetto Classic ice creams! 

The lunch was declared delicious and all the volunteers expressed their appreciation for a wonderful gathering and for the opportunity to connect, have fun and meet new people. 

A toast was proclaimed:
“To each and every one of our star volunteers both present & absent, Rand Aid toasts you and wishes you good health, strength and ability to continue being a friend to our residents. May the love and joy that you give out, be returned to you many times over!” 

For more information on the volunteer programme at Rand Aid: email Debbie Christen at dchristen@randaid.co.za

Philippina Deppe and Celia Fish

Marina Smith and Jenny Holtzberg

Kathy Sen and Tania Sabato

Joseph Capelle and Dorothea Bekker

Leung Ho and Gloria Maddison

Krys Geyser and Celia Fish

Fatima de Nobrega and Gwen Perrin

Gloria Jones and Dorothea Bekker

Ronnie Cumming and Sue van der Neut

Marisa Sabato and Elaine Ho

Hazel Spearpoint and Shirley Blieden

Sue van der Neut and Celia Fish

Lorna Turner and Gloria Jones

Marina Smith and Sherill Singh

Krys Geyser and Ronnie Cumming

Jenny Holtzberg and Shirley Blieden

Madge Ronald and Jim Powell

Jacqueline Cloete and Lorna Turner

Estelle Holtzhausen and Hazel Spearpoint

Jim Powell and Gwen Perrin

Brian Quigley and Estelle Holtzhausen

Beulah Ganesh and Felicité Horn

Brian Quigley and Edel Froschauer

Beulah Ganesh and Denise Stewart

Edel Froschauer and Clair Harding

Jean Johnson, Fatima de Nobrega and Jewel Wolf

Gwen Perrin, Jim Powell and Felicité Horn

Leung and Elaine Ho with Jenny Holtzberg

Dara Migliore and Brian Quigley

Debbie Christen and Jim Powell.

Friday, 2 November 2018

Nurture by Nature Workshop

Two workshops were presented by Alice Ashwell, an environmental educator from Dementia Connections SA who flew up from Cape Town to teach us about the importance of making nature and the outdoors a part of everyday life here at the care centre. 
Getting a daily dose of morning sunlight is beneficial to our health; time spent in nature can help with fitness, stamina, appetite and bone health, and can strengthen our immune system and improve sleep.

Workshop participants did some craft and creative activities using nature’s resources and some relaxation exercises, all of which will be shared with care centre residents in the future. 

The care centre’s Debbie Christen comments: “This workshop helped us realise that this beautiful environment in which we are all so privileged to work and live, is not just for ‘pretty’ – it is a natural habitat where our souls can be calmed and nourished.”


Ethelwynne’s interesting story shared

Back row: Zabeth Zühlsdorff (Rand Aid management), Victor van Eck (son), Nathalie van Eck (daughter-in-law), Ivan van Eck (son) and Phyllis Phillips (Ron Smith’s liaison manager). Front row: Jill Jones and Ethelwynne van Eck.


Rand Aid’s Ron Smith Care Centre and Elphin Lodge believe that if a resident has a good story to tell, it should be shared.

The staff love creating platforms for residents and staff to get to know each other a little better. One of the ways this is achieved is through the Eden Alternative ‘My Story’ initiative, in which the wonderful life stories of village and care centre residents are captured in booklet form, thereby affirming and validating the personhood of each individual.

On October 26, family, friends and fellow residents of Ethelwynne van Eck from the Woodlands wing of Ron Smith Care Centre, as well as various members of staff, gathered for a celebration tea at which Ethelwynne was presented with her newly-printed booklet.

Ethelwynne’s neighbour, Jill Jones, spent many hours with her, recording and writing up her story from her earliest years to the present day. From family struggles during the war and post-war days, through university successes and work as a teacher, to her marriage and a good life with exciting travels and many joyous occasions.

She tells of funny experiences in bringing up four children, all of whom are now graduates with successful careers, and how she became a talented and very successful artist.

The charmed good life, however, suddenly came to a halt in August 2015 when she suffered a stroke which left her right side paralysed. She was devastated as she now had to rely on others and, worst of all, she could no longer paint.

She moved to the Ron Smith Care Centre and eventually was introduced to the Tuesday morning art group at Elphin Lodge. It was here that she started training herself to draw with her left hand and gradually she started to paint again. She has set up her room as her art studio and it is there that she spends hours doing what she loves most – painting in oils.

Her friend, Jill, commented: “Eth’s fortitude in the face of frustrating circumstances is something I admire greatly. She deserves all praise for learning how to use her left hand and being able to paint so beautifully again.”

Her son Victor spoke about his mother being initially reluctant to move from her beautiful home into the care centre but today, he said, she tells him how happy she is now and how she would not like to live anywhere else.

She feels that she is well cared for and her life is full, with her friends, her art, her iPad and continuing interest in the news and world around her. She is content.

An example of the work Ethelwynne van Eck is managing to produce using her left hand.

Wednesday, 31 October 2018

Former Bedford mayor turns 90

Former Bedfordview mayor Brian Russell was guest of honour at a surprise party hosted by his calisthenics class on October 26.

The long-time Rand Aid resident – first happily occupying a cottage with wife Lynne in Inyoni Creek, and more recently a resident of the Ron Smith Care Centre – regularly does calisthenics to keep fit and agile.

Brian met his wife in 1936 when they both lived in Parktown West and attended Parkview Junior and Senior Schools. They were married in January 1955 and celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary in 2015. Sadly Lynne has passed away.

Apart from serving as mayor, Brian was a Bedfordview councillor for over 10 years. He also served as a representative of South Africa’s minerals and energy sector in the United States and the couple lived in Washington DC for six years.

Brian served as a parish minister at St Margaret’s Anglican Church for over 60 years before retiring a few years back.

His actual birthday was on October 25 and his family arrived en masse on Saturday, October 27, to celebrate the achievement of nine decades well lived.

Gail Brown, Lorna van Heerden, Brian Russell, Merle Matthews, Roger Matthews, Inyoni Creek manager Jenny Tonkin, Estelle Truter (calisthenics instructor), Pam Barden and Allan van Heerden at Brian’s surprise party.

 Brian Russell with Inyoni Creek manager Jenny Tonkin.

Friday, 26 October 2018

Camping turns colleagues into family

 Happy staff members mean happy residents

Sr Leanie Bessinger, the charge sister at Ron Smith Care Centre’s River Lodge 1, shares details of a camping trip taken by the staff to promote bonding:

After months of saving money and planning our camping trip, the day finally arrived. 
On the morning of 28 September we all woke up at the crack of dawn to get ready for our departure to Weavers Roost in the Hekpoort Area. Everybody was anxious to get into the cars and start the weekend.

On arrival at Weavers Roost, we checked out our camping sites and decided where to pitch our tents and gazebo. The nurses had never camped before, but quickly learned how to pitch a tent after I showed them what to do. It did not take long to get our house in order and get everyone set up in their respective tents.

On our first day, it started raining and we all took cover under the gazebo, chatting and laughing when we had to run in the rain to get to the ablution facilities. Despite the rain, we managed to have a braai, complete with mielie pap, for dinner. Everyone was exhausted from all the hard work pitching their tents and went to bed early on Friday night.

Most of us were up early on Saturday morning, eager to explore. After breakfast we went for a hike and explored the mountain. After that everybody went swimming to cool off a bit. The brave ones went up to the mountain a second time on Saturday afternoon while the rest of us had snooze or helped prepare the chicken potjie and freshly made pot bread we were to tuck into that night. We even braaied marshmallows on the fire and made smores. It was a busy but exciting Saturday.

Sunday we all woke up with heavy hearts as we realised our little getaway was coming to an end. We indulged in some wishful thinking by imagining phoning our mentor and to telling her we were sick and unable to be at work the next day.

What this meant to each person:

We connected with each on a level other than just work. This weekend created a sense of belonging in each of us, that we are part of a family. It created trust in each other. We were all just happy friends having a good time together. It gave us time to catch our breath and enjoy the beauty of nature. We learned new life skills (pitching tents) and came back feeling refreshed and positive. We are already planning next year’s camping trip.

River Lodge 1 Care Partners.

Annastasia’s legacy lives on in the hearts of many

Annastasia Thula with her only surviving child, Noli Mboweni, and grandson Dumi.

Amazing woman has many stories to share

Annastasia Thula fills a room. Although her memory is not what it once was, the 83-year-old is larger than life. She has a way of drawing a person in with one look and leaving little doubt that she is a woman with a past as powerful as her presence.

A resident of Rand Aid’s Ron Smith Care Centre in Lyndhurst, Annastasia lived next door to Winne Mandela in her younger years, and later was Nelson Mandela’s neighbour in Houghton. Both relationships were close. It was Winnie who introduced Annastasia to her future husband, Gibson Thula, popularly referred to as ‘Mr Gautrain’; and Madiba was a beloved second grandfather to her grandchildren.

But Winnie and Madiba are only one part of Annastasia’s story, which establishes her as a legend in her own right.

After a meaningful career as a nurse, Annastasia committed her ‘retirement’ to uplifting her community. It was the 1980s and South Africa was in turmoil. A state of emergency was in place and the apartheid government used brutal methods to suppress the majority of South Africa’s population.

Thousands of people were arrested during this period of time and many were tortured or killed. Education was in shambles.

Then a Soweto resident, Annastasia and fellow community volunteer Agnes Gcwabaza decided they could not sit back and watch their community destruct without doing what they could to alleviate the suffering.

They joined forces to form the Bophelo Impilo Community Association and inspired other local women to get involved. The result was a range of upliftment programmes, including crèches, saving schemes, food garden programmes and support for the aged.

“There is no reason to be hungry when you have hands that work and soil to plant in,” maintains Annastasia.

Teen pregnancies was one of the reasons why Annastasia and Anges started crèches. 

“Community women were trained in early childhood development and basic hygiene and young moms could go back to school, knowing their little ones were in safe hands,” says Annastasia.

Annastasia is passionate about education, believing it is the key to changing one’s path, and so in the late 80s, she was again compelled to act, this time against the sub-standard education offered in black schools. Many teachers were not qualified, and Afrikaans and English were the mandatory languages of instruction. Youngsters were refusing to go to school and growing increasingly militant. Many young girls were falling pregnant and forsaking their education because of ostracisation.

Anastasia and Agnes’ response was to start the Bophelo Impilo Private School in 1989. It was initially housed in St Margaret Church in Diepkloof but was given an old school building in Mayfair in 1991. Today, nearly 30 years later, the school upholds its founding tradition of challenging its learners to rise above their circumstances. The school has boarding facilities, a successful soccer academy and maintains good academic results.

Lawyers, doctors, teachers, leaders and entrepreneurs are proud Bophelo Impilo alma maters.

Challenging childhood

Annastasia grew up in difficult conditions. Her mother was a domestic worker struggling to raise her children on her own and Annastasia had to balance her studies with the responsibility of helping her mother make ends meet.

While still in primary school, Annastasia was taught how to brew African beer, which was sold to supplement the family’s income. The practice was illegal, however, and the brewing drums had to be hidden in a large outside coal and wood box. This clever concealment was no match for Annastasia’s honesty, however. One day, when she was alone at home, the police arrived and started searching for the beer. Little Annastasia helpfully told them they were looking in the wrong place, before leading them to the coal box.

The contents of the drum were emptied out and as a result, the family face a harder few weeks than normal.

“My grandmother was not educated,” shares Annastasia’s only surviving child, Noli Mboweni. “However, she was very determined to do the best she could for her family and was adamant that they all be properly educated. It was her dream to see her children work in an office, with a pen behind the ear, which in those days was a symbol of success.”
Her vision paid off, with her descendants all well-educated and successful.

Noli studied teaching and worked as a science educator for 10 years before venturing into the world of business. To supplement her BA in education, she enrolled for a Management Advancement Programme at the Wits Business School. This was followed by a number of short courses, including corporate governance at the Gordon Institute of Business Science and various project management courses offered by the Institute of Directors in Southern Africa.

Today, she is regarded as one of the country’s inspirational women and has achieved great success in the corporate environment. Among others, she is a shareholder in Bombela, the consortium that developed the Gautrain; is the CEO of Vela International and a director and shareholder in Sun International’s Afrisun Gauteng.

Just like her mother, she is a community builder and runs a mentorship programme for women on balancing work and family and maintains a bursary fund.

The children of Noli and medical doctor husband Lincoln – Dumi, Vela and Nene – are doing equally well, one as a doctor, like her father, and the other two in the corporate world. A great-granddaughter who lives in London is the youngest of Annastasia’s clan.

Madiba, Winnie and the Thulas

Noli shares how intertwined her parents’ lives were with Winnie and Nelson. “My Dad and Winnie were social workers. Winnie had a boyfriend but Nelson had his eye on her and so my Dad arranged that Nelson, who had a car, would pick Winnie up and give her a lift. Their relationship developed from there.”

Winnie returned the favour, setting out to fix Gibson up with her trainee nurse neighbour, a young Annastasia. Her matchmaking worked well and Gibson and Annastasia enjoyed a wonderful life together until his death in 2016.

When Noli was married 29 years ago, it was Winnie who received lobola on behalf of the family and when Velani, one of the Thula’s children, was shot by the apartheid police in 1988, at the age of 21, Winnie played a pivotal role in the funeral.

Later in their life, Annastasia and Gibson were happy neighbours to Madiba in Houghton and the two sets of grandchildren spent much of their time playing at Tata Madiba’s house.
Noli remembers a time when her children went next door for a playdate and when she went to fetch them, they ran upstairs and hid from their mother in Madiba’s bedroom. He was president of South Africa at the time, and they instinctively knew that Noli would not follow them into the president’s most private space.

She went home. A little later, Mandela himself phoned Noli and asked that she bring pajamas over. “But Tata, we had not planned on a sleepover,” she argued, to which he replied, “Bring over their PJs or I will go to Killarney to buy some. He always got his way,” she chuckles.

She recalls another time when her son Velani and one of Nelson Mandela’s grandsons (the son of daughter Zindzi) were having a joint 10th birthday party at McDonald’s Cresta. Mandela was in Cape Town for Parliament but insisted that he would fly home in time to attend.

“We had a group of 60 very excited children waiting for Tata to arrive, so we could start. When he arrived at Wonderboom, his bodyguard phoned to say that they were on their way. The estimated time of arrival came and went, with Madiba not arriving. Eventually we phoned the bodyguard and asked what the delay was,” recalls Noli.

It turned out Madiba was indeed there, but outside interacting with all McDonald’s young customers. “He was signing autographs, kissing babies and posing for photos while we were being driven crazy by a roomful of children!”

Her last memory of Madiba is bittersweet. “He was being cared for at home by a team of doctors and nurses and heard that my son Velani – by then all grown up – would be visiting.

“I had an important business meeting to attend but collected Velani and drove him to Madiba’s house. A hospital bed had been placed under a tree in his garden and he was sitting on the edge of it, as ramrod straight as ever. When I hugged him hello, he pointed at my car key and said, ‘I see you are driving a Mercedes’.

“He then asked to see the key. He took it and promptly put it in his pocket, all the while chatting to Velani. Eventually I was desperately late but did not know how to retrieve my key.
“Then Mike, one of his favourite bodyguards, whispered to me, ‘You know you have been hijacked, right? Madiba heard that you had to leave, and he purposely took your key’.

“Two hours later, it was time for Madiba to receive medical treatment and I managed to leave. Two days later, he passed away. In retrospect, I am so blessed to have spent that time with him in his last days.”

Noli attributes much of her success to her amazing mom, who remains a powerful force in the family.

When Noli and grandson Dumi arrived at Ron Smith Care Centre for an unscheduled visit one afternoon in August, Annastasia’s already animated face lit up even more. Beautifully made up, with her face virtually unlined and a smile never far, it is easy to see why Annastasia has had such a great impact on her family and community.

She speaks with great conviction and within the shortest time of meeting her, it is evident that her life has been guided by her faith, her family and her unwavering desire to make a difference. “She is a force of nature,” says Noli.

Snapshots of Annastasia's life - both happy and sad moments captured: